I'm married for 7 yrs, w 2 kids, 5 and 3 yrs old. B4 people told me that I'm loving towards my husband but I didn't feel so. I feel though we were together for many yrs , we don't really understand each other and seldom talked. Things changed when i begin to fall in love w a lesbian. She is really sweet and gd w the kids. the first day we become bf n gf, we had intimate contact. we r together for almost 10 mths. nw i don't talk to my husband at all. many times we (lesbian & I) want to break, i just refuse. i know im wrong but my heart loves my gf. My gf wants me to legally divorce my husband nw or she wants to break up w me.