I used to call myself useless guy and always got ditched by my ex. I have no problem in getting attach but i hv problem sustaining it. I currently dating another ger. Being hurt so many time, i am really afraid i got ditch again. I been pondering if this ger is right for me. She always feel that when we quarrel, means our communication breakdown, values different and not meant to be together. She also feel that if I can't outtalk here in any quarrels, why should she listen to me and compromise. We quarrel over many issues so many times sometimes i feel stupid here, and angry.