THE NEW BEGINNING | 7 JULY 2017
After years of misery and torments, today marks a new chapter of my life ever since my marriage for the past 5 years…… Looking forward legally to be a free man 3 days from today on the dissolvement of my marriage. Leaving behind nightmares through the ordeals I had suffered.
Non would wish when they commit their wedding vows, would have to face tormenting experiences from the other half. It saddens me to realised people who committed their vows, betrayed the significant of marriage.
Today I have to attend a court session to dissolve my marriage. Who will expect when you had given sacrifices and love to uphold a marriage. Deem as a fool for loving someone who only returns with deceits and betrayals.
When you got to find out that your wife is having an affair and using sub cards to fund and enjoy a lavish lifestyle for herself and her boyfriend. When all your money in the bank has depleted and chalked 6 figures debts she had incurred under my name.
I even had to make a police report on misdeeds she committed. As a man, I had to overcome nearing bankruptcy and lossing hope in life. Fought very hard from the thoughts of commit suicide and mental suffering with the help from family, friends and colleagues. Bringing myself up with new motivation in life to strive on and persevere through the hardess point in my life.
LIFE FAVOURS THE GOOD
After years of battling for the divorce, she was found pregnant and the child is due late July this year……. Most man whose wife is pregnant with the other man’s child will be devastated, but for me it’s a blessing.
I am fortunate to find out about her misdoings earlier rather than suffer if we have a child of our own. Which her own act assisted to expedite in the legal proceedings with evidence for her adultery.
There isn’t any shame on the wrong choices I had made and I embrace my mistakes.
I bear no hate for her but only to be brave and accept my life’s wrong choices and loving the wrong woman whom I accepted her wholeheartedly. I only have sympathy for her teenager son, her unborn child and her playboy future husband of her unborn child for soon will be her 3rd marriage.
All thanks to her, I am made a stronger person who overcomed these adversities and to cherish the people who love and care for me.
Sincere apologise to my family & friends, whom are worry about my situation.
Deepest appreciation to all who are there for me during my darkest time.
I am blessed to have all of you! THANK YOU!
NO MATTER HOW LIFE HITS ME, I AM GONNA COME BACK STRONGER!