I dont know if this is the right place to post this i just need some opinion. My good friend’s hubby approach me in June to ask for a loan citing he will pay me once he gets his pay in 3 days. Now, it’s been more than 3 months. I have WhatApps him earlier on to ask. I have been very patient i believe… i waited more than a month before asking him, but now he does not reply to my text.
Should I approach my good friend = his wife or do I just continue to chase the husband to get my money back?
I am in a real dilemma here. It is not that I cannot forgo the loan… It is more of a principle thing. Also, my hubby knows about this loan and has been asking me if he has returned the loan. Each time I say no, he just keep quiet but i know he is very unhappy about it.
If you were me, what would you do? Would you risk your friendship by asking the wife, who is my good friend? Or would you just come up with the amount from your own pocket to make your hubby happy? Or just continue to hound the good friend’s hubby for it?