GUY OTHER THAN BF HUG GIRL TO SLEEP CONSIDERED CHEATING?

I don’t understand how some of these NUS students think.

They feel that just because they are more Western educated then they feel they can behave like Westerners with loose morales?

This girl has been going out with her boyfriend for a few years. He is in NS waiting to ord and then go on to study mechanical engineering. One day, the girl meets a guy in the same course who can have “intellectual conversations” with her about uni subjects.

Now she’s complaining that her current boyfriend don’t give her surprises, always very boring and saying that her new uni guy is more exciting, owns his own apartment space and make her very happy.

When she mentally break down, she says she lets the uni guy hug her to sleep, but then says that she is not cheating on her boyfriend.

What a slut. cheating is cheating loh, what story you trying to tell here?

If you can’t appreciate your boyfriend then don’t bother leading the poor guy on lah, bitch. Give him his freedom and don’t show your face in front of him again.

Link to girl’s blog: https://nuswhispers.com/confession/24511

“Guy A
-Year 4 graduating Law student
-Drives a BMW
-Has direct ownership of his own apartment
-Well versed in all sorts of subject and knowledgeable
-Very generous( Brought me to a fine dining restaurant)

Guy B
-First year in NS
-Enrolling into Mechanical engineering after ord
-Always talk about boring and meaningless army stuffs
-Would only bring me to swensen’s or ajisen on anniversaries

Guy A is a close male friend of mine in uni while Guy B is my current BF.

I used to think that my relationship is very stable before entering uni, however Guy A appeared in my life and made me reconsidered my original thoughts. Lately, I found out that I really love to engage in intelligent conversation with A, talking about all kinds of life issues and travelling experiences etc. On the other hand, my BF will only talk to me about boring and meaningless army stuffs that spark zero interest in me. He simply couldn’t understand that I already had enough academic troubles on my plate. Worse of all, he cannot be there when I had emotional break downs . I’m glad Guy B was there to hug me to sleep when I needed emotional support the most. Although I’m a fan of swensen’s and ajisen, that doesn’t mean that I won’t get sick of it. When I suggest to visit atas places for our anniversaries, my BF would always brush this topic aside by saying that we should save up for BTO, money is hard to earn blah blah blah…(Excuses). Sometimes I would rather stay at home then go out with him, there was once I cancelled a date on him and went to wave house with A. Compared to my BF, A is able to surprise me on every single outing.

Truth to be told, A did hinted to me that he had feelings for me but I don’t want to promise him anything yet. As of now, I haven’t cheated on my BF yet, I giving him one more year to change for the better.”