A friend linked me to this article: http://www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/local-gcp-sporean-guys-really-cannot-make-it-very-stingy
I decided to pen my thoughts and share. Hopefully, it gets out.
A person looking for a particular trait in their partner should first possess that trait. If they do not, they either work for it or they lower their standards.
A person looking for a wealthy partner should first be wealthy. Work hard, work smart, look for opportunities.
A person looking for an attractive partner should first be attractive. Exercise, eat healthy, clean up, groom well.
A person looking for a good partner should first be good themselves. Burn into the mind the principles of Loyalty, Integrity, Empathy, etc.
It’s a simple concept that’s hard to practice. After all, we want the best outcome with minimal effort; that’s why lottery is such a draw.