By now you may be wondering: do I have a sense of entitlement? Like anything in life there is a spectrum, and while you may not be a full-blown narcissist or have a borderline personality disorder, you may exhibit a certain level of selfishness that makes other people’s lives hard. If you have a sense of entitlement, symptoms include the following:

1. You impose unrealistic demands onto your family, children, friends, acquaintances, lovers, employees, and/or employers.

2. You tend to feel sorry for yourself if things don’t work out the way you wanted (self-pity), and openly advertise this in melodramatic, attention-seeking ways.

3. People have called you a “bully”, “manipulative”, “ruthless”, “egotistical”, “vain”, or a “liar”.

4. You believe that you deserve happiness and go to great, sometimes extreme lengths to ensure that happens, often at the expense of others.

5. You punish people when they don’t do what you want either passively (e.g. silent treatment, gossiping, spreading rumors) or aggressively (e.g. shouting, verbally/physically abusing).

6. In order to “succeed” in life, you believe in going to any lengths.

7. You constantly see other people as competition or “threats”.

8. You tend to exhibit many double-standards in the way you behave/interact with other people, e.g. I can be late and forget my duties and commitments, but YOU can’t; I can treat myself, but YOU can’t; I can abuse or disrespect you, but YOU can’t to ME.

9. You tend to take more than give in friendships and relationships.

10. You tend to look out for yourself, your needs and desires more than anyone else almost 100% of the time.

11. You have a hard time negotiating or compromising.

12. You have a deep-seated conviction that you have priority and should always come first, even at the expense of stepping on others.

13. People always seem to be offended or upset by what you do or say.

14. You generally think that you are better, or more important, than other people and other people should see this and unquestioningly respect you.

15. You crave admiration and adoration.

16. You like to assert your dominance or superiority over other people, finding it second nature.

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